Carol Delores Haynes

May 4, 1962 - July 6, 2023

Memorial Gifts & Donations

Norfolk- Carol D. Haynes, 61, of Norfolk Virginia, passed away peacefully on 7/6/2023 surrounded by her family. She was the daughter of Robert and Karen Arbaugh and sibling of Greg and Robert Arbaugh. She married Todd Haynes December 15th, 1990, and is survived by him, 4 beautiful daughters Samantha, Jessica, Jacquline, Jennifer and 5 amazing grandchildren Connor, Mason, Gavin, Xander and Madison. Carol served a rewarding 23 years in the United States Navy, retiring as an LDO Lieutenant. Once retired she continued to serve the Hampton Roads community as Vice President of Operations for Childrens Health Investment Program (CHIP). She was loved by all and helped anyone with anything at any time. We know she is flying high and free in fields of sunflowers, daisies, and hummingbirds…and keeping an eye on all of us. The family ask that instead of flowers please make any donations to the Arthrogryposis Foundation in her oldest grandson’s name, Connor Hurst, at A celebration of life will be held at a later date to be determined by her family. Condolences may be expressed at
Love you to the moon and back forever and ever!

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Sarah Sterzing
5 months ago

My deepest sympathies and prayers of love to you all. Im so, so sorry. She was an incredible human whose heart and positive spirit was unending. Thinking of you all and your angel above.

Joanne Keenan
7 months ago

I am sad to hear of Carol’s passing. I worked with Carol at CHIP. Carol was one of the hardest workers I have ever known. My thoughts and prayers are with her friends and family.

Nykia Bailey
7 months ago

Todd and Sam, please accept my sincere condolences to you and your family. I had the privilege to work close with Carol during our time at CHIP together. She will always be superwoman in my eyes and greatly missed. May God grant you the strength you all need during this difficult time.

Geoff Kern
7 months ago

Sammy, I send my condolences to you and your family. I, like everyone else, loved your mom. She will be deeply missed. All the loves.

Taffy Young
7 months ago

Todd, please accept Taffy and my deepest condolences in the passing of your beautiful
wife Carol. We both were very fond of her, you and the family are in our prayers my friend.

Christine Kern
7 months ago

Samantha, I’m so very sorry for your loss. Praying for comfort and peace for you and your family.

Mary Ellen Trivette
7 months ago

So very sorry for your loss. Your mother raised an amazing woman (women) Jackie! I know that her nuturing spirit will live on as you continue to be the fabulous mother you are.

Brenda (Jump) Nuttall
7 months ago

So sorry for your loss. Prayers and thoughts to you and your family.

Janet and John Dunbar
7 months ago

Sincere condolences to Todd and family-you are in our thoughts

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